I love Halloween! What’s not to like? As a kid you got to dress up, stay up late and go door to door and get free candy!! Its the only time you are permitted to take candy from strangers haha. As adults you get to dress up and go out and celebrate. There is something about dressing up at parties that instantly make it more fun. It also happens to be the only time you can dress in sexy costumes and go out in public without people slut shaming you because everyone is dressing up as well.
Did you know the day after Halloween is the best time to get cheap sexy outfits for your sexual role-play?! Don’t let your costumes collect dust all year round. You can use your halloween props and outfits to spice up your sex life. Dressing up allows you to be someone else and gives you a boost of confidence especially if you dress in something sexy. If its not something you do regularly its a novelty that increases the dopamine in your brain. More dopamine=better sex!
Halloween is a great way to explore your fantasies and finding the perfect outfit can make this a reality! Where is the best place to bring up this talk? Anywhere but the bedroom. While you are having breakfast, carpooling to work or via text message. Talk about fantasies, desires and wants in a neutral, pressure free zone where you wont feel the need to act on it at that moment. Ask your partner(s) what you like and listen to what each person has to say. Not sure how to start the convo? Say something like, “you know what would be really hot? If I dressed up as a nurse and you were my patient” or “If I dressed up as a doctor and you were my nurse” or whatever the scenario if that you want to act out. Talking about what you want in bed can be one of the hardest things for people to do. Never judge something your partner discloses to you. No one likes to get shut down so if your partner reveals something they are interested in, do your best to be be supportive. I am not saying you have to be down with everything they want to try but this is a great time to discuss what you are/aren’t comfortable with. Encourage each other to open up and you will both enjoy the experience more.
More dopamine=better sex!
Not only is Halloween a goldmine for getting sexy outfits, its also a great time to get sex props. A few of the them include; sexy stockings. Lots of folks get turned on by fishnets but have you ever tried using them to tie your partners hands? What about wrapping them around your partners shaft for added friction or pulling it taught and gently running it over their clitoris? Something new to try with stockings you might not have thought about. Another great prop are wigs. What better halloween prop to give you a new personality. Maybe you always wanted to see if blondes really do have more fun, or maybe you are a natural blonde and want to take a walk-on the dark side but don’t want to commit. Get a wig and play out your fantasy for a night and step into a new role. And finally, try a sexy mask. It’s the next closest thing to a blindfold and can add a bit of mystery and help you get into character when you have something to hide behind if you are not super confident.
They say the best foreplay starts after the last orgasm. Building anticipation with a sexy text message, a little snapchat of your costume (maybe the wig you plan to wear that night) can really have you looking forward to your evening. Men are visual creatures and women have reported to feel more sexually confident when they dress up or wear something sexy. It is a win-win for all parties!
Now that we have the costumes, its time to get to the play! Cosmo has put out a list of 8 Utterly Bewitching Halloween Sex Positions for you to try.
THE TITILLATING MUMMY
Wrap yourself in bandages, and have your partner lick and kiss each part of you as they unwrap you. Bonus: You can use the bandages to tie them up and blindfold them afterward.
Refuse to move or bend your knees and elbows while he penetrates you. It’s like being tied up, but self-inflicted. Kinky!
DOUBLE DOUBLE BANG IN BUBBLES
Find a Jacuzzi, have him sit on the bench, and straddle him cowgirl style. Turn on the jets and go to town. For an extra challenge, add eye of newt.
THE WITCH’S BROOM
Have him plank between two (soft) chairs and ride him cowgirl style. Cackle as you see fit.
THE GREAT PUMPKIN
Sixty-nine while rolling head-over-heels around the apartment.
THE DEVIOUS DRACULA
Have sex upside down. If you’re not a vampire, doing this from a handstand position with your feet leaning against the wall may be your best bet.
THE AMOROUS GHOST
Drape yourselves in sheets and wail loudly as you rub your bodies against each other, unable to consummate your love just like real ghosts. (I assume, anyway. Ghosts probably can’t have sex, right? I’m Googling it and I can’t find anything.)
BONE THE SKELETON
Standing up, have your partner penetrate you from behind. Bend at the waist and shake (or twerk) like you’re a skeleton with no muscles.